Well it's about time I started posting something along these lines. The title is pretty self explanatory really.
This month is my little pet sammy, whom I am quite fond of. Yes, just 'quite' sammy!
So what did sammy do to deserve this mention on my blog you ask?
Well sammy has been serving me for about 6 weeks now I think, and in that times he has impressed me so much, which makes me very happy of course! Below are just a few of the things he has done recently to make me very happy.
Whenever sammy is coming to visit he always asks if I want or need anything bringing when on his way, always thinking of me.
When he arrives, he kneels before me without waiting to be instructed, down on the floor below me, just where he should be kissing my perfect feet.
When he stays over he tidies away his things before I wake up and doesn't need telling this ever. Hes a very lucky boy and sleeps at the side of my bed in case I require anything of him. I always wake to a cup of tea beside my bed also. Perfect.
On his last stay I came down for another tea to find he had popped out to the shop for me again, without needing to be asked. He'd bought some things I would have had to go and get later, so saved me a job, again always thinking ahead and of how he can make my life easier.
He drives me to shoots and places I need to go whenever he can, though he has a busy job he always does what he can for me.
He does anything I ask of him without question or hesitation. He does it to the best of his ability, very humbly and more importantly, quickly.
He served me well and did me proud at my latest CFNM party, always a delight to have around my beautiful friends. On a filming day last week he came to help me sort things out on the day and do some jobs for me while I was busy. Poor sammy didn't get that much attention that day, but did he moan about it or ask for anything? No. What he did do is purchase me a gift to be delivered without me knowing or expecting it, and it arrived on the day of the shoot. I had no idea what it was or who it was from until I opened it. How perfect to have a paddle arrive, and of course he took the first few swings from it :) A delightful surprise.
He also got me another gift that I adore, and was very pleased with, it looks delightful and I shall most certainly be wearing it at the next party he come along to with me.
I adore how easily I make him blush!!
So as reward sammy got a lovely treat, I allowed him to take me out for dinner one evening this week and there may well be another treat or two ahead for him, not that he will expect anything in return. I must say I am very very happy, and happy Mistress is always good. Such a well behaved little pet too!
I look forward to seeing how he tries out do himself next month! ;)
So take note losers! A few pointers on how to make your Mistress happy and serve her well!!
Well you lucky subbies have a massive choice when it comes to Double sessions this next month or so! I have so many amazing and beautiful women visiting, it'd be silly not to offer you the chance to serve us both.
Miss Annalieza will be here on the 23rd of June again, and as always I cant wait to see her!! VERY limited opportunity for bookings as we are very busy and have plans! The right applicant may get a very lucky chance for the right tribute! Theres plenty of blogs about what we are like, I think Miss Annalieza needs no other words, her reputation speaks for herself!!
The delightful and delicious siren that is Miss Jaye Rose will be joining me on the 25th to the 27th of June for three days of tease, torment and denial! Expect to be seduced, drained and tormented beyond your wildest dreams. Though Miss Jaye isn't a professional Domme, she is available for bookings with myself on these dates!
AND
Mean Girls - Myself and Miss UltraViolet will be available together July 9th -11th. Visit 2 Sadistic Bitches for an opportunity not to be missed! An fantastically evil Mistress, though young, very much into the extreme side of play. Between us there is no activity we do not cover!! *Not for the feint hearted*
So no doubt there will be more to add to this, and maybe there'll even be some footage from our play at some point. Better to come and experience the real thing as we may be having too much fun to film! Message me at Miss_Ely@hotmail.co.uk to make any inquires. Please state which date you would like to visit and details of your session requests. If you have not visited one of us before, a deposit will be required to secure your slot.
Well been a while since I chattered about what I have been upto properly, and I know how some of you love to know what I have been upto! I've a few cool things to mention here, so might be a bit of a long one, but worth a read I think, it is about me after all! Our favourite subject lol ;) Loads of really great stuff in this post!
Well I will start with my little day trip. Me and my dearest friend CMUK went for a little drive to see Jack of http://www.jacksfloggers.co.uk/ to nosey and buy some new toys, mine partly funded by one of my special boys. I have to give a big shout out to this guy, he is not only a brilliant craftsman, but a super chap too. Marvellous stuff, brilliant quality and so much more stock than he has on his website. I really reccomend his products, and going to visit him at one of the fayres/markets he does, or at his workshop to see all the lovely stuff. We came back 'armed' with some freaking delicious stuff, Im super happy, and have loved playing with those I had a chance to so far! Beautiful canes, but more on those for another blog!
After a bit of DIY (yes, Miss is handy with a power tool too) and a bit of sweat and dust, we now have a hitty corner in the living room, nice easy access for those swift punishments ;)
I also went and did two days of awesome filming with Princess Megan in Bristol this time! We had an excellent time, it was fabulous seeing Miss Laura Lee and I did a whole day of cuckold and slave training. It was great fun to capture a bit of how I train some of my boys, and I know the members are loving it!! Visit www.YoungDommes.co.uk to check out more! Latex, forced bi, stress positions and SOOOO much more. All delicious fun!!!
PEDESTAL!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!
Another amazing time with the darling Miss Annalieza and some of our friends. It was her slaves birthday, so Ped was extra special and fun! We had a pre ped party, and had lots of fun tormenting the subs, having drinks and getting ready for ped! A great time was had, lots of partying, dancing and I finally had a ride on Muffin the human pony! What fun!!!
I was escorted by a delightful sub, who deserves a little mention I guess, he made a marvellous chair and was perfectly behaved. Did me proud, and I look forward to spending more time with him soon :)
As usual we spent plenty of time in the trampling cage NOMNOM!! And I had a fantastic dress made for me by a darling friend 'loki' - She makes brilliant latex and at a great price. I messaged her Tuesday night and had it delivered to my door Friday morning. Noe THAT is customer service!! You can find her on facebook as Beth Loki Winterwood. Tell her I sent you, she will be delighted to make anything you can imagine!! <3
TRAMPLING IS GOOD FOR THE SOLE LOL!!!!
As usual we had an amazing dinner party on Saturday, with wonderful people, delicious food and kinky fun fun fun!!! Sunday we relaxed and tormented some more boys at my CFNM party and did some filming for Miss Annaliezas femdon site! LUUUUUSH!!
The lovely molon labe, who we met at pedestal, came along Sunday, and was utterly delightful. Every so often I meet a submissive who is great! I wish more were like him, and he is a credit to submissives everywhere and of course his Mistress, whom shall be getting a long, detailed message about how perfect he was soon. Selfless and keen to do anything that creates a 'happy Mistress face' an utter delight! It was my pleasure to attend one of the London munches with him last Wednesday. Again, a complete delight, and I miss him dearly now he has returned to Australia. I hope to visit him soon over there, and look forward to meeting his Mistress in person later this year too!!
You've no doubt read about my new poochie coming soon (fingers crossed) in my last blog, so watch for an update on that soon!!
If you keep up on my blog, you'll know I posted for some regular filming slaves. An exciting month or so ahead for me as I prepare to launch my new members site! This is the build up of many months of work, and I know you will all be delighted to see what I have in store for you all :) CAN NOT WAIT!!
Its going to be no nonsense, fly on the wall, hardcore femdom, catering for almost every fetish you could possibly imagine!!
Just remember, no stroking those cocks without paying your wank tax first!! heehee
Doesn't matter on their Dominance, sexual orientation, age, whatever! We LOOOOVE being spoilt, pampered and knowing we have been thought of!
So I have been sorting my wishlists out and split them up so you can easily purchase something you know I will adore!
For those of you who really want to treat me to something nice, I have made the Stuff I REALLY want list. Some of this is more expensive than most can afford in a go, but theres a solution to that to come later.
You wannabe cuckolds out there have your own list too here - if you just love being teased or knowing your Mistress is wearing something sexy that you bought, this is the list for you!
All you shoe lovers, trampling fans, foot fetishists and hoisery fanatics should wiggle yourselves along to my foot fetish list
I still have my main list, which is clothes I like and want to wear out or for video clips, flowers and gifts for under £5, some bags and other things.
I like everything on my lists and price isn't as important as me knowing you want to spoil me!
Now, for those who cant decide what to buy me, I love gift cards. These can be sent to getely@gmail.com and I will save them until I fancy a shopping spree or for something big and expensive.
I'll be making a new list soon as I will hopefully be getting a chihuahua, and of course, if you want to make me happy, making my poochie happy will bode well for you too! He is from a rescue shelter and was abandoned!! How cruel! But the poor chappie will soon be in his new home, and I expect you to keep an eye out for his wishlist, he will want lots of gifts to welcome him into his new home! If any of you want to make a donation to the shelter that saved him, do let me know! They require a minimum of £120 to cover his costs of being there, but I know you boys would agree with me that they deserve more for the great work they do so dig deep!!
I'm passionate about charities like this, that have to raise their own funds and do something selfless for those less fortunate than us! Like you subbies, animals are still living things to and deserve to have a happy life with love and nurturing, a safe place to be and to be cared for properly! Any of you who have spoken to me (politely) or met me will know I care a lot about my boys and am very much a nurturer, so lets show these animals the same yes? Make me proud!! :)
Now this month you have all been very generous, Miss is very happy indeed. So many gifts, I am not sure I can put them all up here! Some lush latex and my beautiful new riding crop! The black and red dress was custom made, more to come on that in my next catch up post!
Ive also had some gorgeous shoes, my favourite perfume, a bit of bling and loads of gift cards and tributes, which all add up to one super happy Miss Ely :D
I am shite at adding images on here, but you get the idea lol!! This is why I won't add everything! lol
I'd like to say a big thanks to all of you who spoilt me with gifts, time, trips out and foot massages.
Money doesn't buy you happiness, but gifts certainly brighten my day!
Miss Ely and Miss Annalieza will be spending the weekend together in Maidenhead. The Godesses have decided to offer you lucky boys the chance to come and serve them both in session!
Miss Ely and Miss Annalieza cater to most fetishes between them, but for those hardcore subbies who want their Mistress to take the lead, corporal punishment and torture enthusiasts, humiliation lovers and worshipers of beautiful Dominatrices; you have met your match ;) and double the fun!!!
They can be booked together at the tribute of £300 for an hour, or £550 for two hours.
Availability is from 2pm Saturday and Sunday. They will only be taking one or two appointments, so express your interest quickly! Those who serve well may be invited to their CFNM party on the 24th of June also.
Can't afford to book the ladies but want a chance to please or impress them?
Well they will be spending an evening out together on Saturday, dancing away and partying. They have both permitted that you may tribute towards their evening out, and if you are lucky, you may even get a call or picture from them on the night!
MUST have sessioned or filmed with me previously (or have outstanding refs from another Domme I know)
MUST be able to film at least once a month for a few hours (I am flexible on when and travel around a bit)
Masks are acceptable for the right person, unmasked a huge advantage.
Variety of kinks and few limits another advantage.
Other bonuses are if you have experience, can be marked, if youre a crier (nom nom tears) and if you can dedicate 3+ hours
Some filming may be done with a crew or other male subs around, if you dislike this don't show your interest.
Filming will cover the following: (note you do not have to do all of these)
CP
CBT
Humiliation
Chastity
Electrics
Forced bi
Anal/strap on
and loads of 'tamer' stuff (foot fetish, tease and denial, CFNM, objectification, slave training etc)
If you dont have interest/ability in at least two of these, its likely I will not be able to use you. You don't have to be uber brilliant at taking any of the above, a willingness to at least try them on camera is essential!
No scat, watersports, needles/bloodplay ect. Can not host this stuff!
Comment or message me, you will be ignored if you haven't read the above and fit the bill. If you do more info will be provided.
So here's a little something that has been on my mind a bit, more so this weekend. I always enjoy writing as a form of expressing myself, so hope you enjoy and it stirs some kind of emotion in you too.
I have high standards. I expect a lot, and give it in return too. These are some of my essentials, the rest is just my thoughts, advise and preferences.
I am passionate about what I do and can hand on heart say that I love my life. Thank you to those who make it that little bit more wonderful for us all :) For that I truly love you!
COMMUNICATION - I always say this is my number one rule. I am good at reading people, but I am not a mind reader. I will ask a question because I want to know. I care enough to ask, and expect you to care enough to answer with something more than 'whatever pleases you Miss' which is one of my pet peeves, but thats for another blog.
I will give an instruction, task or similar because I want or expect something to be done, and there is always a reason for everything I do. If I am unclear, you should say. I don't want to set people up to fail, and you should want to succeed and feel comfortable and confident enough to ask if you are unsure or think you can't comply. If you are to be punished, praised or anything else, I will always talk about it with you, and hear your thoughts too, before anything else. It may only be a few words needed, but there will be enough communication to make sure we both understand. If you feel down, tell me. If you have made me proud or I have enjoyed something, I will always tell you. Our voices are our most valuable tool and we should use them more.
ATTENTION - I give you my attention in many ways, but listening is one I think is important. Its vital for the little things to be important, even if they are silly or unimportant to most, they are your things and therefore have great value to me. I care enough to listen to you, and give my contribution. It may not be what you want to hear, but I will feel in my head and heart that they are useful. Listening, and more so hearing are such valuable skills to have for all. I will encourage and insist on attention both ways, for these reasons.
HONESTY - I will never lie to you. I have nothing to fear from my honesty. You may not like what I have to say, but I value the truth enough to share it openly and freely. I see nothing more shameful than lying. Even when you want to lie, for whatever reason. Believe me, there will be times you will feel you want to, please don't. I will respect you more for being honest than I ever would for lying. There is nothing to fear from the truth, you should not be ashamed or scared of the consequences. If you are always honest your conscience will be clear and I will be proud of you for it, and there is nothing that will come between us if you tell the truth.
TRUST - Theres a reason for everything I say and do. Without trust there is nothing. I would never put you in danger and your safety and happiness are always my priority. I will trust you to tell me if something is not right, if there is something you do not like or if you can't take anymore. I want you to put your trust into me, let me take you to new places, and you should trust that I will be at your side in our journey. I will not abandon you ever.
TIME - I will want to spend time with you, when possible and appropriate, and I am sure the feeling is mutual. If you can't give me your time physically, and you'll never be able to do that all the time, then text, call, email me, send a carrier pigeon if you wish. I want to know you are thinking of me, and wish you were near me when you can't be. I can't always reply immediately and I don't reply sometimes if I don't feel its necessary. But trust me when I say if you need my time, I will be here for you, even if its silly o'clock in the morning. I want you to be there for me if I need anything and it is within your power to do so also. Time only costs time, and that is one of the best things you can give for free to anyone you care about.
CONSISTENCY - Being consistent is the foundation of any relationship. If you visit on regular days, I would expect you to arrive. If I call you at a certain time every week, you should know I will always do that. I set rules to help this, and I make sure the rules I set can be monitored. I will continue my consistency by discussing and punishing the breaking of rules every single time. I will consistently communicate and listen to you, and expect you to do the same. Sometimes life gets in the way and we can never be 100% consistent, but if we try our best, no one can ask or expect more.
MIND - I want us to share things that are important to us, no matter how small. You may like my looks, I may like your skills or obedience, but our minds are so powerful, so this could not be left out. What you think, aspire to be, your fantasies are all important and a part of your mind. What happens in your life every day (even something as small as what you had for lunch) matters to me, because to me, you matter.
LOVE - Love is such a powerful thing and comes in so many ways. Everyone wants to be, and should be loved, no matter what level your relationship is. From me, you will have unconditional love. No matter if you are bad, fail or disappoint me. Your behaviour, mood or attitude will never change or define my love for you. Unconditional love is just that! No one is perfect all of the time, even me. That should not change our love for each other. I may not say it often, or at all, but know I have a place in my heart for everyone close to me.
A bit more for you to read;
Your presence is a present to the world. A gift to be given freely, and accepted graciously.
You’re unique, individual and one of a kind. There is no other you.
Your life can be what you want it to be, sometimes it take a little work. Nothing worth having ever came easily.
Take the days just one at a time, those who care enough will be at your side when you need them.
Understand, have courage, be strong. Be proud of who you are, embrace your submission.
Don’t put limits on yourself, they will only hold you back.
Some decisions are too important to leave to chance.
Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
Don’t take things too seriously, life is too short!
Remember that a little love goes a long way. Remember that a lot goes forever.
Friendship is a wise investment.
Life’s treasures are people together.
Realize that it’s never too late and you're never too old. If you don't try, you'll always wonder what if.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Wake every day with a smile on your face. Make others smile as your day goes on.
Take the time to wish upon a star and don’t ever forget even for single a day how wonderful you really are!
Listen to this song. If I wanted someone red, I would spank them!
