Dream team opportunity

As many of you know, I am a huge fan of attending club Pedestal and never miss an event!!

I shall be there this month with the beautiful Miss Annalieza as usual.

This month it was my birthday, so in celebration we are throwing our usual pre ped party again on the 30th of November. There shall be some of the finest Dommes attending and we require a few boys to serve us through the evening. There is space for one or two more lucky subs on the Friday evening. A tribute will be expected to cover the costs but shall be priceless for the opportunity you are getting.

On Saturday the 1st, we find ourselves with some free time for a double session up to 2.30pm. We will be near Tower Bridge in London. Demand is always high for this, and of course we only select the very best sluts to be our playthings. Appointments are £250ph for the both of us. I will also have my slave to hand if required, so between us we can cover everything from foot worship to forced bi!

AND if that wasn't enough!! There are still one or two spaces at my CFNM party on Sunday the 2nd for any of you boys who do exceptionally well on the 30th or 1st. My parties are always fantastic events, held from my home in Maidenhead. Only the very best boys are selected to come to these as a reward for doing well. There is no tribute for this, as invites are to be earnt through serving well. Here's a few snaps of some past parties to whet your appetite. This months is going to be spectacular!!

For more information or an enquiry please contact us via getely@gmail.com
Clearly state your interest in your first message with all questions.
We look forward to playing with you

Governess Ely and Miss Annalieza

www.MissEly.com
www.Miss-Annalieza.co.uk

Birthday Governess

Well as some of you know it is my Birthday on the 7th of November.

I shall be 28 this time, but think next year I will start counting backwards :)

A few of you boys have been asking what I want for my birthday and I haven't really been able to decide... up until now.

I would really like to go to a nice spa with one of my friends and be pampered, relaxed and spoilt. A glass of champagne and some treatments would be delicious. I imagine I will go mid November.

For this I will be taking gifts via paypal (getely@gmail.com) or bank transfer (message for details) and hope it will add up to a lovely few days of indulgence.

There of course is also my amazon wishlists (there are a few if you look to the side menu) which is full of things I would love, on my birthday or indeed anytime :) [http://www.amazon.co.uk/registry/wishlist/2FPQKY4Y7KKLD/ref=cm_wl_act_vv?_encoding=UTF8&reveal=&visitor-view=1]

I will be planning a little party as usual towards the end of the month and this will have a very fun birthday theme. Those who have purchased my favourite gifts will be receiving an invite and maybe a little gift from myself as thanks.

Be sure to get in touch and let me know if you have sent a gift to me, or wish to discuss before hand. I always try to make time to reply to all my messages though I doubt I will have chance to answer all that wish me a happy Birthday so please do tweet me @GovernessEly or add me on facebook Ely Governess instead!

Thanks in advance, see you at the party :D

Governess Ely
aka the old one ;)

Personal sub near Maidenhead required.

I have a full time vacancy for a personal submissive.

You **must** be located near Maidenhead and be available a lot, would suit someone self employed or semi retired/retired.

The position is full time and you will be required to drive me, sometimes long distances.

Duties will include domestic work, chauffeuring, assisting in some sessions (if its your thing) and use of any other skills you may have.

Bonus if we have similar interests! I keep my clothes on and I do not do scat or AB play. My limits are non negotiable, expect yours to be respected also.
Bonus is you have useful skills, let me know, anything from cooking to website stuff to photography to painting, mention them all, it won't do any harm!

Benefits will be:
Serving at dinner parties
Attending my femdom and CFNM parties to serve the ladies
Attending events
Play with myself and other Mistresses
Filming (if you're happy to)
 and much more.

Inbox me with your details if you are interested and available to start immediately. I will send more information upon receiving your mail.

I do not seek a partner. I do not need someone starting next month. I do not wish to hear from those who have wasted my time in the past!!

If you feel you could do half of this, I may consider taking two new boys on but you will have to be exceptional.


Sounds demanding, but hey, I'm a Domme, I get to do that!

I do not expect tribute with this position.

Governess Ely

Domestic required in Maidenhead

I find myself in need of one or two house boys/maids for domestic duties this month. This position will be temporary, ongoing for the right person.

You will not be required Sundays as I already have someone serving on this day.

I am looking for someone to start asap (ie tomorrow/today) With my work load getting much busier, I have less time for such things.

Therefore want someone to attend regularly (2 or 3 times a week) ideally living quite local. I am happy to have you attend anytime in the day and can be fairly flexible in this.

Please do not show interest if you are miles away.

Must be able to attend to duties without constant supervision, though training and guidance will be offered from the start for those unsure.

You will be expected to do chores and jobs around the house. These will include general cleaning, ironing, DIY and assistance in preparing for sessions and filming.

Preference goes to an older sub with previous experience of a role. You will be reliable, trustworthy and dedicated. Though play is inevitable for those who serve well, it should not be expected.

Please message me with details of availability, experience, references if available, and anything else you think I should know or that will help your application.

I am a smoker and I do have a small dog for those who need to know this.

No tribute required.

 Want to clean my floor in chains like little jingles here??

 Or go over my knee if you do a good job??

If you're very good, maybe I'll take you for walkies too!!!

Miss Ely

Planning ahead for July

SO much to do this month and a busy diary already!!

I am editing LOT AND LOTS of awesome clips for my new members site. I still have use for some filming slaves. So if you can film unmasked or take a lot of harsh play, contact me.

I am in Bristol this Saturday/Sunday so may take an appointment or two that interest me.

I am filming on the 10th with Femme Fatal Films, and require an unmasked slave for the day to film a few clips with and chauffeur me there and back. (Maidenhead to West London) No tribute required.

Don't forget MissUltraViolet is here the 9th to 11th and we are available for double sessions. Between us there isn't much we don't cover, so get booking now!!


I have still to select a sub to attend Pedestal with me this month, and decide what to wear, so shopping trip required soon boys! Of course I am EXTREMELY selective with who I choose to attend, so make sure your applications are good!!

I find myself in need of one or two house boys/maids for domestic duties this month. I am looking for someone to start asap (ie tomorrow/today) With my work load getting much busier, I have less time for such things, therefore want someone to attend regularly (2 or 3 times a week) ideally living quite local. Must be able to attend to duties without constant supervision. You will be expected to do chores and jobs around the house, and though play is inevitable for those who serve well it should not be expected. No tribute required.

I also have a vacancy for one, maybe two personal subs, I'll write another post about this as its very specific.

I've had a great month shooting for www.Bitchslapped.co.uk and www.YoungDommes.co.uk in Southampton, theres some great clips on the sites, so go check them out already!!

The CFNM party was a blast last month, this months is the 15th of July, and should again be great fun!!  If you are interested in atending then get your applications in now.

To show interest in any of the above, contact me via my site www.MissEly.com or email Miss_Ely@hotmail.co.uk

Miss Ely

My favourite sub of the month.

Well it's about time I started posting something along these lines. The title is pretty self explanatory really.

This month is my little pet sammy, whom I am quite fond of. Yes, just 'quite' sammy!

So what did sammy do to deserve this mention on my blog you ask?

Well sammy has been serving me for about 6 weeks now I think, and in that times he has impressed me so much, which makes me very happy of course! Below are just a few of the things he has done recently to make me very happy.

• Whenever sammy is coming to visit he always asks if I want or need anything bringing when on his way, always thinking of me.
• When he arrives, he kneels before me without waiting to be instructed, down on the floor below me, just where he should be kissing my perfect feet. 
• When he stays over he tidies away his things before I wake up and doesn't need telling this ever. Hes a very lucky boy and sleeps at the side of my bed in case I require anything of him. I always wake to a cup of tea beside my bed also. Perfect.
• On his last stay I came down for another tea to find he had popped out to the shop for me again, without needing to be asked. He'd bought some things I would have had to go and get later, so saved me a job, again always thinking ahead and of how he can make my life easier.
• He drives me to shoots and places I need to go whenever he can, though he has a busy job he always does what he can for me. 
• He does anything I ask of him without question or hesitation. He does it to the best of his ability, very humbly and more importantly, quickly. 
• He served me well and did me proud at my latest CFNM party, always a delight to have around my beautiful friends. On a filming day last week he came to help me sort things out on the day and do some jobs for me while I was busy. Poor sammy didn't get that much attention that day, but did he moan about it or ask for anything? No. What he did do is purchase me a gift to be delivered without me knowing or expecting it, and it arrived on the day of the shoot. I had no idea what it was or who it was from until I opened it. How perfect to have a paddle arrive, and of course he took the first few swings from it :) A delightful surprise. 
• He also got me another gift that I adore, and was very pleased with, it looks delightful and I shall most certainly be wearing it at the next party he come along to with me. 
• I adore how easily I make him blush!! 

So as reward sammy got a lovely treat, I allowed him to take me out for dinner one evening this week and there may well be another treat or two ahead for him, not that he will expect anything in return. I must say I am very very happy, and happy Mistress is always good. Such a well behaved little pet too! 

I look forward to seeing how he tries out do himself next month! ;) 

So take note losers! A few pointers on how to make your Mistress happy and serve her well!! 

Miss Ely

DOUBLE DOMINATION DATES!!

DOUBLE DOMINATION DATES!!

Well you lucky subbies have a massive choice when it comes to Double sessions this next month or so! I have so many amazing and beautiful women visiting, it'd be silly not to offer you the chance to serve us both.

Miss Annalieza will be here on the 23rd of June again, and as always I cant wait to see her!! VERY limited opportunity for bookings as we are very busy and have plans! The right applicant may get a very lucky chance for the right tribute! Theres plenty of blogs about what we are like, I think Miss Annalieza needs no other words, her reputation speaks for herself!! 

The delightful and delicious siren that is Miss Jaye Rose will be joining me on the 25th to the 27th of June for three days of tease, torment and denial! 
Expect to be seduced, drained and tormented beyond your wildest dreams. Though Miss Jaye isn't a professional Domme, she is available for bookings with myself on these dates! 




AND


Mean Girls - Myself and Miss UltraViolet will be available together July 9th -11th. Visit 2 Sadistic Bitches for an opportunity not to be missed! An fantastically evil Mistress, though young, very much into the extreme side of play. Between us there is no activity we do not cover!! *Not for the feint hearted*


So no doubt there will be more to add to this, and maybe there'll even be some footage from our play at some point. Better to come and experience the real thing as we may be having too much fun to film! Message me at Miss_Ely@hotmail.co.uk to make any inquires. Please state which date you would like to visit and details of your session requests. If you have not visited one of us before, a deposit will be required to secure your slot.


We look forward to your submission!!


Miss Ely and Friends x

Catch up - What Miss Ely has been doing!

Well been a while since I chattered about what I have been upto properly, and I know how some of you love to know what I have been upto! I've a few cool things to mention here, so might be a bit of a long one, but worth a read I think, it is about me after all! Our favourite subject lol ;) Loads of really great stuff in this post!

Well I will start with my little day trip. Me and my dearest friend CMUK went for a little drive to see Jack of http://www.jacksfloggers.co.uk/ to nosey and buy some new toys, mine partly funded by one of my special boys. I have to give a big shout out to this guy, he is not only a brilliant craftsman, but a super chap too. Marvellous stuff, brilliant quality and so much more stock than he has on his website. I really reccomend his products, and going to visit him at one of the fayres/markets he does, or at his workshop to see all the lovely stuff. We came back 'armed' with some freaking delicious stuff, Im super happy, and have loved playing with those I had a chance to so far! Beautiful canes, but more on those for another blog!
After a bit of DIY (yes, Miss is handy with a power tool too) and a bit of sweat and dust, we now have a hitty corner in the living room, nice easy access for those swift punishments ;)

I also went and did two days of awesome filming with Princess Megan in Bristol this time! We had an excellent time, it was fabulous seeing Miss Laura Lee and I did a whole day of cuckold and slave training. It was great fun to capture a bit of how I train some of my boys, and I know the members are loving it!! Visit www.YoungDommes.co.uk to check out more! Latex, forced bi, stress positions and SOOOO much more. All delicious fun!!!

PEDESTAL!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!
Another amazing time with the darling Miss Annalieza and some of our friends. It was her slaves birthday, so Ped was extra special and fun! We had a pre ped party, and had lots of fun tormenting the subs, having drinks and getting ready for ped! A great time was had, lots of partying, dancing and I finally had a ride on Muffin the human pony! What fun!!!
I was escorted by a delightful sub, who deserves a little mention I guess, he made a marvellous chair and was perfectly behaved. Did me proud, and I look forward to spending more time with him soon :)

As usual we spent plenty of time in the trampling cage NOMNOM!! And I had a fantastic dress made for me by a darling friend 'loki' - She makes brilliant latex and at a great price. I messaged her Tuesday night and had it delivered to my door Friday morning. Noe THAT is customer service!! You can find her on facebook as Beth Loki Winterwood. Tell her I sent you, she will be delighted to make anything you can imagine!! <3

TRAMPLING IS GOOD FOR THE SOLE LOL!!!!

As usual we had an amazing dinner party on Saturday, with wonderful people, delicious food and kinky fun fun fun!!! Sunday we relaxed and tormented some more boys at my CFNM party and did some filming for Miss Annaliezas femdon site! LUUUUUSH!! 

The lovely molon labe, who we met at pedestal, came along Sunday, and was utterly delightful. Every so often I meet a submissive who is great! I wish more were like him, and he is a credit to submissives everywhere and of course his Mistress, whom shall be getting a long, detailed message about how perfect he was soon. Selfless and keen to do anything that creates a 'happy Mistress face' an utter delight! It was my pleasure to attend one of the London munches with him last Wednesday. Again, a complete delight, and I miss him dearly now he has returned to Australia. I hope to visit him soon over there, and look forward to meeting his Mistress in person later this year too!!

You've no doubt read about my new poochie coming soon (fingers crossed) in my last blog, so watch for an update on that soon!! 

If you keep up on my blog, you'll know I posted for some regular filming slaves. An exciting month or so ahead for me as I prepare to launch my new members site! This is the build up of many months of work, and I know you will all be delighted to see what I have in store for you all :) CAN NOT WAIT!!

Its going to be no nonsense, fly on the wall, hardcore femdom, catering for almost every fetish you could possibly imagine!!

 Just remember, no stroking those cocks without paying your wank tax first!! heehee

Miss Ely x

Spoil me

Now any woman out there LOVES gifts!

Doesn't matter on their Dominance, sexual orientation, age, whatever! We LOOOOVE being spoilt, pampered and knowing we have been thought of!

So I have been sorting my wishlists out and split them up so you can easily purchase something you know I will adore!

For those of you who really want to treat me to something nice, I have made the Stuff I REALLY want list. Some of this is more expensive than most can afford in a go, but theres a solution to that to come later.
You wannabe cuckolds out there have your own list too here - if you just love being teased or knowing your Mistress is wearing something sexy that you bought, this is the list for you!
All you shoe lovers, trampling fans, foot fetishists and hoisery fanatics should wiggle yourselves along to my foot fetish list

I still have my main list, which is clothes I like and want to wear out or for video clips, flowers and gifts for under £5, some bags and other things.

I like everything on my lists and price isn't as important as me knowing you want to spoil me!
Now, for those who cant decide what to buy me, I love gift cards. These can be sent to getely@gmail.com and I will save them until I fancy a shopping spree or for something big and expensive.

I'll be making a new list soon as I will hopefully be getting a chihuahua, and of course, if you want to make me happy, making my poochie happy will bode well for you too! He is from a rescue shelter and was abandoned!! How cruel! But the poor chappie will soon be in his new home, and I expect you to keep an eye out for his wishlist, he will want lots of gifts to welcome him into his new home! 
If any of you want to make a donation to the shelter that saved him, do let me know! They require a minimum of £120 to cover his costs of being there, but I know you boys would agree with me that they deserve more for the great work they do so dig deep!!


I'm passionate about charities like this, that have to raise their own funds and do something selfless for those less fortunate than us! Like you subbies, animals are still living things to and deserve to have a happy life with love and nurturing, a safe place to be and to be cared for properly! Any of you who have spoken to me (politely) or met me will know I care a lot about my boys and am very much a nurturer, so lets show these animals the same yes? Make me proud!! :)

Now this month you have all been very generous, Miss is very happy indeed. So many gifts, I am not sure I can put them all up here! Some lush latex and my beautiful new riding crop! The black and red dress was custom made, more to come on that in my next catch up post!

Ive also had some gorgeous shoes, my favourite perfume, a bit of bling and loads of gift cards and tributes, which all add up to one super happy Miss Ely :D

I am shite at adding images on here, but you get the idea lol!! This is why I won't add everything! lol

I'd like to say a big thanks to all of you who spoilt me with gifts, time, trips out and foot massages.

Money doesn't buy you happiness, but gifts certainly brighten my day! 

Miss Ely xxxx

Miss Annalieza visiting

Miss Ely and Miss Annalieza will be spending the weekend together in Maidenhead. The Godesses have decided to offer you lucky boys the chance to come and serve them both in session!

Miss Ely and Miss Annalieza cater to most fetishes between them, but for those hardcore subbies who want their Mistress to take the lead, corporal punishment  and torture enthusiasts, humiliation lovers and worshipers of beautiful Dominatrices; you have met your match ;) and double the fun!!!

They can be booked together at the tribute of £300 for an hour, or £550 for two hours.

Availability is from 2pm Saturday and Sunday. They will only be taking one or two appointments, so express your interest quickly! Those who serve well may be invited to their CFNM party on the 24th of June also.

Can't afford to book the ladies but want a chance to please or impress them?

Well they will be spending an evening out together on Saturday, dancing away and partying. They have both permitted that you may tribute towards their evening out, and if you are lucky, you may even get a call or picture from them on the night!

Alternatively you can visit their wishlists and treat them to something nice.
Miss Elys wishlist http://www.amazon.co.uk/registry/wishlist/2CNUM40C3IHH2/ref=cm_wl_act_vv?_encoding=UTF8&filter=all&sort=priority&layout=standard&visitor-view=1&reveal=unpurchased

Miss Annaliezas wishlist http://www.amazon.co.uk/registry/wishlist/2PQWU916P9EWI/ref=cm_wl_sb_v?reveal=unpurchased&filter=all&sort=priority&layout=standard&x=11&y=8

To express interest please email Miss Ely at Miss_Ely@hotmail.co.uk

Filming slave vacancies

Seeking some RELIABLE regular filming slaves.

MUST have sessioned or filmed with me previously (or have outstanding refs from another Domme I know)
MUST be able to film at least once a month for a few hours (I am flexible on when and travel around a bit)

Masks are acceptable for the right person, unmasked a huge advantage.
Variety of kinks and few limits another advantage.
Other bonuses are if you have experience, can be marked, if youre a crier (nom nom tears) and if you can dedicate 3+ hours

Some filming may be done with a crew or other male subs around, if you dislike this don't show your interest.

Filming will cover the following: (note you do not have to do all of these)

CP
CBT
Humiliation
Chastity
Electrics
Forced bi
Anal/strap on
and loads of 'tamer' stuff (foot fetish, tease and denial, CFNM, objectification, slave training etc)
If you dont have interest/ability in at least two of these, its likely I will not be able to use you. You don't have to be uber brilliant at taking any of the above, a willingness to at least try them on camera is essential!

No scat, watersports, needles/bloodplay ect. Can not host this stuff!

Comment or message me, you will be ignored if you haven't read the above and fit the bill. If you do more info will be provided.

Miss Ely

High standards

So here's a little something that has been on my mind a bit, more so this weekend. I always enjoy writing as a form of expressing myself, so hope you enjoy and it stirs some kind of emotion in you too.

I have high standards. I expect a lot, and give it in return too. These are some of my essentials, the rest is just my thoughts, advise and preferences.

I am passionate about what I do and can hand on heart say that I love my life. Thank you to those who make it that little bit more wonderful for us all :) For that I truly love you!

COMMUNICATION - I always say this is my number one rule. I am good at reading people, but I am not a mind reader. I will ask a question because I want to know. I care enough to ask, and expect you to care enough to answer with something more than 'whatever pleases you Miss' which is one of my pet peeves, but thats for another blog.
 I will give an instruction, task or similar because I want or expect something to be done, and there is always a reason for everything I do. If I am unclear, you should say. I don't want to set people up to fail, and you should want to succeed and feel comfortable and confident enough to ask if you are unsure or think you can't comply. If you are to be punished, praised or anything else, I will always talk about it with you, and hear your thoughts too, before anything else. It may only be a few words needed, but there will be enough communication to make sure we both understand. If you feel down, tell me. If you have made me proud or I have enjoyed something, I will always tell you. Our voices are our most valuable tool and we should use them more.

ATTENTION - I give you my attention in many ways, but listening is one I think is important. Its vital for the little things to be important, even if they are silly or unimportant to most, they are your things and therefore have great value to me. I care enough to listen to you, and give my contribution. It may not be what you want to hear, but I will feel in my head and heart that they are useful. Listening, and more so hearing are such valuable skills to have for all. I will encourage and insist on attention both ways, for these reasons.


HONESTY - I will never lie to you. I have nothing to fear from my honesty. You may not like what I have to say, but I value the truth enough to share it openly and freely. I see nothing more shameful than lying. Even when you want to lie, for whatever reason. Believe me, there will be times you will feel you want to, please don't. I will respect you more for being honest than I ever would for lying. There is nothing to fear from the truth, you should not be ashamed or scared of the consequences. If you are always honest your conscience will be clear and I will be proud of you for it, and there is nothing that will come between us if you tell the truth.

TRUST - Theres a reason for everything I say and do. Without trust there is nothing. I would never put you in danger and your safety and happiness are always my priority. I will trust you to tell me if something is not right, if there is something you do not like or if you can't take anymore. I want you to put your trust into me, let me take you to new places, and you should trust that I will be at your side in our journey. I will not abandon you ever.

TIME - I will want to spend time with you, when possible and appropriate, and I am sure the feeling is mutual. If you can't give me your time physically, and you'll never be able to do that all the time, then text, call, email me, send a carrier pigeon if you wish. I want to know you are thinking of me, and wish you were near me when you can't be. I can't always reply immediately and I don't reply sometimes if I don't feel its necessary. But trust me when I say if you need my time, I will be here for you, even if its silly o'clock in the morning. I want you to be there for me if I need anything and it is within your power to do so also. Time only costs time, and that is one of the best things you can give for free to anyone you care about.

CONSISTENCY - Being consistent is the foundation of any relationship. If you visit on regular days, I would expect you to arrive. If I call you at a certain time every week, you should know I will always do that. I set rules to help this, and I make sure the rules I set can be monitored. I will continue my consistency by discussing and punishing the breaking of rules every single time. I will consistently communicate and listen to you, and expect you to do the same. Sometimes life gets in the way and we can never be 100% consistent, but if we try our best, no one can ask or expect more.

MIND  - I want us to share things that are important to us, no matter how small. You may like my looks, I may like your skills or obedience, but our minds are so powerful, so this could not be left out. What you think, aspire to be, your fantasies are all important and a part of your mind. What happens in your life every day (even something as small as what you had for lunch) matters to me, because  to me, you matter.

LOVE - Love is such a powerful thing and comes in so many ways. Everyone wants to be, and should be loved, no matter what level your relationship is. From me, you will have unconditional love. No matter if you are bad, fail or disappoint me. Your behaviour, mood or attitude will never change or define my love for you. Unconditional love is just that! No one is perfect all of the time, even me. That should not change our love for each other. I may not say it often, or at all, but know I have a place in my heart for everyone close to me.

A bit more for you to read;

Your presence is a present to the world. A gift to be given freely, and accepted graciously.
You’re unique, individual and one of a kind. There is no other you.
Your life can be what you want it to be, sometimes it take a little work. Nothing worth having ever came easily.
Take the days just one at a time, those who care enough will be at your side when you need them.
Understand, have courage, be strong. Be proud of who you are, embrace your submission.
Don’t put limits on yourself, they will only hold you back.
Some decisions are too important to leave to chance.
Nothing wastes more energy than worrying. 
Don’t take things too seriously, life is too short!
Remember that a little love goes a long way. Remember that a lot goes forever.
Friendship is a wise investment.
Life’s treasures are people together.
Realize that it’s never too late and you're never too old. If you don't try, you'll always wonder what if.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Wake every day with a smile on your face. Make others smile as your day goes on.
Take the time to wish upon a star and don’t ever forget even for single a day how wonderful you really are!

Listen to this song. If I wanted someone red, I would spank them!

Miss Ely

Demanding

"I want" never gets... Or at least that's what my Mother always told me when I was growing up.

I've been thinking about this and wanted to write something about it for a while now, but not been quite sure on where to begin, so here goes. 

Now, as a professional Mistress, I am quite happy to provide the service and activities wanted, I adore helping people express and explore their kinky, deviant side and much more. I consider myself extremely lucky to be able to have such a wonderful career and live the lifestyle so fully. 

This allows me to do so many other wonderfully kinky things, such as hosting my CFNM and dinner parties and inviting those who have served well to attend. When I host my parties I want to reward those who please me with a treat. I choose who attends, and I have had some wonderful people come as submissives, as well as Dommes. 

I go to fabulous events and do lots of filming. When I go out to a club or event, I choose someone special to attend with me, they represent me and I am lucky enough to say, they have always done me proud. When I do filming for my site, or other sites, I will always use those who I think are best for the job and who I know to be reliable. 

I get many who can not afford my tribute, which can be understood, and of course, I always try to discuss something about this to see what we can arrange.

I get to see who would make the perfect personal submissives for me in sessions, take them on and train them to what I require as well as helping them to grow, develop and explore more. I even, on occassion, for the right applicant, allow some to come and serve me in my home, doing domestic duties. I really am very lucky and I do love my life. 

Now I am getting to my point, so do bear with me. :) 

What I do not appreciate, in my lifestyle time and personal play, away from my Professional Domme work, is demands from s-types. It is not submissive in any sense to be a 'me me me' subbie. This will get you nothing, except maybe ignored or blocked. 

Let me give an example; I have just been chatting with a sub from overseas. He is a student, but really wants to come over and visit, but can't afford the tribute. I suggested to him that he messages me with what he can offer, in both his skills, a tribute and his time and we can go from there. I'll say it again, what 'HE CAN OFFER ME' - 

His reply was;  i am interested in foot worship, humiliation, face sitting, spanking and punishment and cuckold(if it is also possible)...

best interest is in foot worship and cuckold...
regarding the tribute i can not be sure mam coz money with me kind of keeps varying in amount....
now what would you like to say???

and recently i watched videos related to strapon....
i lovedd them and wish to do that as well if possible...
thats all....
i hope you respond 

Not one mention of what he can do or offer for me, and shamefully all about him. Is this really the attitude of a lot of subs these days?? Sadly it seems so. Let me say, this comes across as very selfish. "I want I want I want" - If that is your attitude, save up and book a session, there are many wonderful Mistresses out there who will happily do exactly what you want in session, but in OUR free time, a bit of consideration will get you a long way! 

The reality is that the majority of us 'Dominants' love to play, we love BDSM and our kinky side, and play is inevitable and a part of who we are. 

So when you approach Us in a club, instead of asking if you can worship Our shoes, why not instead ask if there is anything you can do for Us. Chances are that you will get much more from Us. The same goes for filming, attending events and much more. "What can I do for you" is so much nicer than "i want" and "Can i" and the rewards will be much nicer too for the most part. Even "I would love 'xyz' what can I do to make this happen" is a bit nicer. 

Be respectful please. Yes we are Dommes, but we are people first and foremost!! To quote a delightful chap I met just this last week; 

'Dommes are not walking fetish delivery systems' 

So if you are truly submissive, you love being the one who makes your Mistress have that 'happy Domme smile' and you really want to serve, give your head a shake and think of Her too. Just a little... 

Another great line that always makes me have a huge smile on my face is 

'I want to take/do this for you Miss' 

Nothing makes me happier, prouder or more content than when one of my subs says words to that effect. To be selfless and want to do anything to make another happy is as good as it gets, and you know what, it makes me want to do anything to make them happy too! 

SO REMEMBER!!!

Black dog push ups

Well as most of you know, I am a big fan of club Pedestal and always attend.

This month was particularly good, which I will go into in more detail on my blog, but in short, it was another amazing evening and just gets better and better.

I met molon_labe [https://fetlife.com/users/60109] who came all the way from Australia. We shared a little workout, ie; I sat on his back while he did some push ups, and all for a very good cause. Pictures to come soon from Pedestal :D

We had a chat and he really is a great guy, we need more like him in the scene. Anyway, he is over here to raise money for the mind, the mental health charity.

We all know someone who has suffered with depression and it is something that we can all help with in a small way by donating to his project and the charity.

While he is here he will be doing 10 pushups every minute... for 12 hours in London on the 7th of June, and I will be sure to pop along if possible to show my support as well. (I'll detail locations later this week)

You can keep up with the project on the day on twitter by following @blackdogpushups - I'll certainly be tweeting ;)

You can show your support and help keep the black dog away by donating at [http://uk.virginmoneygiving.com/BlackDogPushups]

Please remember that this is a vanilla project, so be respectful of that when donating. I am sure he would love to have everyones support.

Come on people, make me proud to be a kinkster ;)

Miss Ely

May CFNM event

Well my latest CFNM party is on Sunday the 27th at my home in central Berkshire.

I adore making new friends as well as those already known to me, both professional and lifestyle Dommes. It is a femdom event, so switch/sub/kinky women are welcome also and of course will be treated in the highest regard.

All ladies are welcome to attend and enjoy an afternoon/evening of entertainment and socializing as my guests. There will be refreshments through the day also. As always, you are most welcome to bring your own s-type along as well should you choose.

Its always a fun day, with a few of my best behaved subs in attendance to fulfill every desire and need, or be ignored in the corner should you chose. I hand select a few of the best submissives throughout the month, ensuring theres a good variety of play to be had.

I look forward to you all visiting.

I never send invites as such, so please do drop me a message if you would like to come along.

NOTE TO SUB MALES
If we have previously discussed you serving at one of my events, drop me a polite message. I will reply to those I can. Those I have not met will not be invited unless attending with a female.

Looking forward to cocktails already.

Miss Ely x

April Pedestal review

Well I have to confess I have become rather addicted to Pedestal since my first visit back in January 2012. And what's not to love about it.

April was the first monthly event to be hosted, and I must say, it was the most enjoyable evening I have had there to date. Im pleased I finally have the time to write about it!!

Myself and the beautiful Miss Annalieza attended Club Pedestal together, clad in shiny black latex.
Upon arrival we were presented with a rose from one of the house slaves who waited to greet us at the top of the stairs.

This visit we even managed to grab the lovely derek for a little foot worship and a photograph together this time. YAY!!! derek has given kind permission to use all the photographs shown in this blog, you can find him on Facebook and Fetlife as Derek Schiavo :) An example and role model to all of you male submissives out there, take note!!

Try not to drool over those legs too much boys! 

 As usual we arrived later, but surprisingly, it was rather quiet compared to the past events I have attended. I must say, I do hope it stays this way to a degree. It was much more intimate, there was plenty of time to stop and talk with people, meet friends, use the equipment and view the amazing shows that the Pedestal team put on for our entertainment. 

There was a best dressed man competition as well as fantastic entertainment from Brithish heart Boylesque. Check him out here http://www.britishheartboylesque.co.uk/ 

The hilarious Dee Riley put on a show that had us all in stitches, I will definitely be looking out for him in the future ;) May even have to get him to one of our dinner parties. For more info on booking him visit his site here; http://www.deeriley.co.uk/

And the captivating Sapphire De Vine. We were all blown away be her fiery and seductive entertainment!! Go check her out here; http://www.sapphiredevine.co.uk/

There was a delightful little slave from Dublin who was very helpful in attending to me for a short while, named Anthony, I am reliably informed. He was a delight, as most usually are, and we took full advantage, of course. He did very well and I was very pleased with his efforts. 

I also ran into a few slaves I have filmed with previously, #43 and spitface, as I fondly call them. Miss Annalieza had fun with a single tail and spitface's back, while I delighted in a heavy OTK spanking of #43s bottom in the middle of the play area. Bottoms were made to be spanked after all and #43 deserved a treat after driving me into London earlier that evening at short notice too. 

As always, fun was had in the trampling cage with me and Miss Annalieza, though we may have dented or broke a few slaves...  woops!! :)

The one thing that always seems to happen is when I return home, I receive quite an amount of messages and tweets saying subs wanted to approach but didn't know how to, so I think I shall write a post regarding approaching Mistresses at Pedestal for you little sluts that are too busy dribbling to think about it too much. 

Needless to say, we had a wonderful time and are already planning our next visit in May. This is the one event I always make sure I attend and do not miss! Highly recommended and without a doubt the best Femdom club around! 

Keep up the great work guys and thank you for making it so brilliant!!! 

For more details about Pedestal, go and visit the website http://www.clubpedestal.com 

Miss Annalieza can be found on her members site http://www.miss-annalieza.co.uk/

Much love

Miss Ely

May line up

Well May is looking to be a busy month already, so I thought a post to share and inform would be a good way to spend a bit of time this afternoon!

I've just updated my wishlist and added some new items to it. I adore getting gifts so do pay a visit, its a great way to get my attentions. Amazon wishlist

Well for the rest of this week I have a small amount of time free for sessions.
Friday 6th - between 1pm amd 6pm
Sunday 8th - between 12 noon and 10pm - I may potentially do some filming with the right slave application.

I am available in Maidenhead Monday and Tuesday also before my trip up to the north west.

8th to 11th I am in the north west, so will be available for outcalls and photo shoots. I do not plan to do any filming whilst away, but could be convinced for the right slave. I may need a driver/domestic companion and will be based in the Blackburn area mainly. Also potential for a driver from Maidenhead to Blackburn on the 8th, and Blackburn to Birmingham on the 11th/12th
8th travelling up north. Driver not allocated still.
9th booked all day
10th free until 8pm
11th free 12 noon to 7pm

12th - 13th of May I plan to be in Birmingham. I have a short amount of time to take appointments. Driver and domestic companion required again.

I shall be back in Maidenhead between the 13th and 16th of May for sessions as usual.

16th and 17th of May I am in Bristol filming with Princess Megan for www.YoungDommes.co.uk I require a driver early on the 16th, and return late on the 17th to Maidenhead.

18th I have some availablity after 2pm for sessions.

19th and 20th I am filming in Maidenhead, some vacancies are still available for filming slaves.

21st to 23rd I am available in Maidenhead between 8am and 10pm for sessions.

24th booked all day

25th I will be attending pedestal with Miss Annalieza

26th is our Dinner party evening.

27th is my CFNM party, as always in Maidenhead.

29th and 30th Some availability for bookings, filming ect.

If you are interested in availability as a domestic, companion, driver, filming slave, in making an appointment or any of the above please view my previous blog for information on what the positions entail and what is expected. View for more details.

As always email Miss_Ely@hotmail.co.uk or contact me via another method if preffered.

Contact details are on my website www.MissEly.com

Miss Ely

Miss Ely and Miss Annalieza visit Kent

I am delighted to be able to announce to all you lucky sluts that the beautiful Goddesses that are Miss Ely and Miss Annalieza are visiting Kent this Thursday, 19th of April for the weekend.

The Goddesses have decided to offer you lucky sluts one of four possibilities in meeting them:

1) APPOINTMENTS
The Goddesses have a limited amount of time in which they can take bookings for Double Domme Appointments over the weekend. Mainly on Friday and Saturday evenings after 7pm.
Appointment tribute is a minimum of £300 per hour and you will be expected to pay a deposit unless you are VERY well known by one or both of the Goddesses.

2) OVERNIGHT SLUT STAYS
There is potential for an overnight stay with the Goddesses for the right slut on either Thursday or Friday evenings only to serve for their entertainment in their private Appartment. Appointment time with the Goddesses will be very different from a session because it is more about serving and assisting them while in their divine company.
Again a deposit and tribute will be expected.
There will no doubt be time for some play, but this is not to be expected as spending time with the Goddesses together is a special and rare gift in itself. Obviously as a slutty piggy there will be errands and chores for you to do and if not, they might just invent some for their amusement.

3) FILMING SLUTS
On top of this there will also be the potential to do some filming with the Goddesses for their FemDomme sites, either individually or together in the day. To be lucky enough to be considered as one of the Goddesses filming slaves, being able to be marked and filmed without masks are preferable, but not essential for the right piggy.

4) DOMESTIC COMPANION & CHAUFFEUR
There is also the possibility of being a domestic companion & chauffeur for the days the Goddesses are in Kent, maybe having to drive one or both of the Goddesses about, maybe having to take them shopping and carrying their Goddess bags. Who knows, you will be at their command in anyway that will make the Goddesses lives easier.
Obviously the Goddesses will require a meal in the evening, so you need to be able to cook, or to find somewhere acceptable for the Goddesses to dine. You will either wait in the car until they need you to come in and pay, or for a small extra contribution the Goddesses have agreed you can watch them eat, maybe from another table, while you of course get nothing other than their left overs if they leave any. Any left overs will be consumed from a pet bowl once the Goddesses have been safely returned to their Appartment. If you choose to not pay a tribute to watch the Goddesses eat then you go to bed hungry piggy.

If interested in booking the Goddesses for any of the above, please email Miss Ely with the following details, failure to do so will result in your message being deleted and ignored.

- Which option you are applying for: 1) an Appointment, 2) an overnight stay, 3) filming piggy or 4) to serve as a domestic companion & chauffeur during the Goddesses visit
- The day(s) and time you would like to visit.
- How long you wish to visit for.
- Your tribute proposal
- Deposit amount and how you intend to pay this (paypal or in person preferred)
- Your contact details

Please also include a bit about yourself and your interests, any skills you have etc etc. This is your chance to impress. The Goddesses expect the demand to be very high for this rare honour.
Please make sure that you answer all the questions above, failing to do so not only makes you look even more like a silly piggy but shows simple tasks can not be completed!

Send emails to Miss_Ely@hotmail.co.uk
Alternatively you may call on 07928 959671 to discuss our requirements.

The Goddesses will only be taking advanced bookings.
Serious enquiries only please.
Be respectful and humble at ALL times.

On behalf of Goddesses Miss Ely & Miss Annalieza

Editing videos

Sat editing some footage I shot recently.
I hate editing.
Anyone want to come do it for me??

In the mean time heres some snaps for you to get excited about.

And some more from Princess Megan while filming for YoungDommes.co.uk and Class5b.co.uk

Enjoy ;) 

One flaw in women

By the time the Lord made woman,
He was into his sixth day of working overtime..
An angel appeared and said,
"Why are you spending so much time on this one?"
And the Lord answered, "Have you seen my spec sheet on her?
She has to be completely washable, but not plastic,
have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable
and able to run on diet coke and leftovers,
have a lap that can hold four children at one time,
have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart
-and she will do everything
with only two hands."

The angel was astounded at the requirements.
"Only two hands”!? No way!
And that's just on the standard model?
That's too much work for one day.
Wait until tomorrow to finish."

But I won't," the Lord protested.
"I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart.
She already heals herself when she is sick
AND can work 18 hour days."

The angel moved closer and touched the woman.
"But you have made her so soft, Lord."

"She is soft," the Lord agreed,
"but I have also made her tough.
You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."

"Will she be able to think?", asked the angel.

The Lord replied,
"Not only will she be able to think,
she will be able to reason and negotiate."

The angel then noticed something,
and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek.
"Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model.
I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one."

"That's not a leak,"
the Lord corrected,
"that's a tear!"
"What's the tear for?" the angel asked.

The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy,
her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love,
her loneliness, her grief and her pride."
The angel was impressed.
"You are a genius, Lord.
You thought of everything!
Woman is truly amazing."

And she is!
Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness,
love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give.
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,
IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

Filming slaves wanted!

OK so decided to get cracking with my filming this week in Maidenhead, possibly next week too if I get any worthwhile applications.

So filming slaves. I am shooting all sorts of content and of course I want to shoot stuff I will get a good reaction out of you with. Some of my favourite activities are CP and CBT, humiliation, trampling, foot worship, slave training, chastity (own device required and willingness to return in the future essential) strap on, tease and denial, electric play.... endless list.

Please note a small tribute is required for the day - consider it a wanking tax ;-) There may be filming crew and other male slaves in attendance also.


Preference will be given to those who;

have visited  for a session or communicated previously
have few limits (limits will of course be respected)
are happy to be filmed un-masked
have experience
can be marked
If youre a crier (nom nom tears)
If you can dedicate 3+ hours

The above are only preferences, and not essential criteria. It is only essential that you will show on the day and are enthusiastic about the day as much as we are.

Please message myself with the following details;

when you are free
where you will be travelling from and how
any personal limits, injuries or allergies etc that we need to be aware of
if you require a mask for filming
if you can be marked


Also include a paragraph about why you wish to come, your experience, details of your tribute and anything else you feel is important or of use to us. Make sure you include all this as I do not wish to have to squeeze these answers out of you. Failing to do so will result in your email being ignored.

Remember first impressions mean everything!!!

Emails to Miss_Ely@hotmail.co.uk

Miss Ely

Travel plans for March and April

Well I am off up to the North West for a little break tomorrow.


Me and Miss April have a delightful chauffeur lined up for our little road trip, which is guaranteed to be lots and lots of fun :) 


So I will be around the Preston (Lancashire) area until I return next Tuesday. 


This is going to mostly be a break for me, but I would be interested to hear from you if you would like to book a session or be a filming slave while I am that way, I always like to get new locations for my site, which will be launching in the next few months.

If you would like to meet me, in a session or for filming, please understand that it is up to you to prove that you are serious and not a time waster. For either this can be done by providing references from other Dommes or by making a tribute of some kind. Understand that I get inundated with messages from guys who are not serious, this is just a part of the business and does make a bad name for those of you who are serious, but knowing this, I would hope you are happy to prove you are worth my time and that you are not like the others.

If you are interested in being a filming slave or booking a session then please drop me a message at Miss_Ely@hotmail.co.uk with the following information;

*introduce yourself to me. I dont need your life story, but I do like to know a little about those I session/film with.

*tell me where you are based, if you can travel to me, and how you will travel.

*tell me whether you’re interested in being a film slave a session or another meeting, ie; lunch, a shopping trip or a night out. I am very open to hearing, I know a 'session' type meet isn't for everyone, so do feel free to discuss this with me.

*tell me what activities you’re most interested in, any hard limits and anything else I will need to know.

*Prove yourself! Provide a reference or express your interest in making some kind of tribute to myself (there are many options here, the gesture is more important than the actual gift/tribute.)

I will also be available for filming for private use, content share or if you are a photographer/film producer - Please drop me a title and let me know as much info as possible. My schedule can be flexible for the right offer. 

More details on my Domme site www.MissEly.com or for modelling http://purpleport.com/portfolio/ely/

I leave tomorrow at 1pm, so if you can book by then I can ensure I have any items I need with me. I will have a few bits and pieces with me, but am very capable of adapting to a household environment and using everyday items to ensure your complete domination. 

The same applies to shoots, I will have some outfits with me, but nothing extensive. I know the area very well for location shoots and all the local stores if there is something that you would love to shoot me in. I just need a little time to arrange everything. 

IN APRIL I AM PLANNING TO TRAVEL UPTO SCOTLAND VIA THE WEST COAST AND RETURNING VIA THE EAST. THE ABOVE APPLIES TO THAT TRIP ALSO, FOR THE RIGHT OFFER I WILL MAKE SURE I AM IN YOUR AREA! 

I am looking forward to blogging about my trip when I return!!

Be good while I am away!!! 

Miss Ely xxx